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| Improve Communication With Aging Parents: 5 Basic Tips |
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Because most of us lead busy lives, we don't stop to think about the most effective way to talk with an aging family member. Here are a five tips to consider when you want to speak with an elder Communication is much easier when you keep these idea in mind. 1. Make sure the time is convenient. Just like you, your mom has a routine she keeps. She wakes up pretty much at the same time every day. She eats breakfast, lunch and dinner on a schedule. She may have certain daily activities she likes like watching a particular tv or getting her nails done. Be respectful. Make sure the time you want to stop by is convenient for her. 2. Make sure they are comfortable. Make sure they are sitting in a comfortable chair. Give them the most comfortable chair in the room. Ask if they need anything to drink or need to go to the bathroom before beginning your chat. 3. Make sure your face is well lighted. Hearing loss is common as we age. Many elders unconsciously read lips to better understand what is being said. If your face is easy to see, it can be easier for your mom or dad to understand you. 4. Talk to their good ear. Along the same lines, make sure their good ear is closest to you. Position yourself so your loved one can hear you clearly. 5. Pick a time of day they are better able to focus. Each of us has times of the day when we have more energy and focus. Does your mom function better in the morning, afternoon or evening? Does that match up with your energy levels? Try to match your peak times. If both you and your dad function best mid-afternoon, that's when you should have your chat. By choosing the time of the day they are functioning the best, you improve the chances your ideas will be well received. |